In
Japan, business cards are a big deal. There is a special protocol for
giving and receiving business card. Business cards are treated with
great respect. For example, always take the card with both hands.
Never just put a card in your pocket. Examine the card carefully when
it is given and try to ask a question about it. These are just a few
of the etiquette rules.
Xavier,
our youngest son, is attending first grade at the neighborhood
elementary school. He enjoys it a lot but it has been an adjustment
for Terence and me. Many parents complain about all the papers their
kids bring home from school. It becomes even more challenging when
you can't read 85% of what comes home. Another challenge is adjusting
to the differences in education styles. One example is school on
Saturday. Our neighborhood is lucky in that the kids only go to
school on one Saturday a month. Sometimes school on Saturday is for
special events like sports day, but other times it is a regular
teaching day. Parents are invited, well encouraged, OK actually
expected to come and observe. There is an attendance sheet for
parents to mark outside the class door.
I
went to watch on one of the first Saturday school days. I was
thankful to see what went on in the classroom and to see how Xavier
was adjusting. I was surprised when the kids got out their business
cards and did an activity where they walked around the room giving
out their cards. They had made these huge, notebook paper sized cards
the day before. The cards had their names and their school address
(grade and class number).
At
first I was a little dismissive. Why was it important for my six year
old to learn business card etiquette? This was probably fuelled by my
irritation that Xavier had to attend school on Saturday and my
annoyance at having to attend school on Saturday as well. Then I
realized it was actually a good way to use a social tradition to give
the kids practice writing their names and meeting their new
classmates.
In
the last few weeks I have been thankful for my business cards. We
made up cards that have my name and address and contact numbers on
one side and information about the church on the other. It includes
worship times and a map from the nearest train station. Due to city
layout and the dependence on public transportation, maps are vital.
Recently, I have met three people out in our area and had the
opportunity to invite them to church. Two of them were new to the
area and looking for a place to worship. Without the business cards
it would have been hard to explain all the details to them. In a
society where business cards are so important in daily life, it is
good to be able to use that tool in evangelism.
Because of his practice writing his name at school, Xavier was able to write his name on this card he painted.
1 comment:
it is so good to hear about your mission work in japan
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